Dear Miss VJ,
Hello i am a very confused girl. And my question is very simple. How would you know if you already love a person of the opposite gender? I mean romantic love? The kind of love that makes you want to spend your life with him? How can you distinguish if he was just really special or there is love? I have the vaguest idea about love. Can you tell me all about it!
Thanks!
*practices the tango, in a long red dress with slits up the side and very high heels*
*hums to self*
Dear Confused,
Robert Fulghum once said that everything anyone has ever said about love is true, just not all of it is true at the same time.
And I think this is true because there are infinate kinds of love out there.
Take any adjective and it's a type of love.
Friendly love, unfriendly love, book-love, movie-love, music video love, blue love, red love, yellow love, sweet love, sharp love, hippie love, snuggly love, sticky love, etc.
And sadly, there's no catalog to order your love from.
Some would say that wishing for one kind is great way to get another kind, but I just think the odds of getting one out of a billion kinds of love is just always pretty slim.
So it's really more a matter of examining the sort of love you've found, and deciding if it's what you wanna keep and nourish and build.
Does it light you up?
Does it make your world, your life make more sense?
Does it scare you a little, but not a lot?
Is it the love YOU want?
The answers to this questions aren't all you NEED to know, but they'll pretty much all you CAN know at the beginning.
Go read about it, write about it, but by all means EXPERIENCE it, as you find it. Love is an education at the very least, and so it is NEVER wasted.
Best of luck! (although love IS the best luck)
Adorably,
Miss VJ
*grabs a red feather boa from a hook on the closet door and throws it around her neck*
*hums louder*
Next question, please.
Hello i am a very confused girl. And my question is very simple. How would you know if you already love a person of the opposite gender? I mean romantic love? The kind of love that makes you want to spend your life with him? How can you distinguish if he was just really special or there is love? I have the vaguest idea about love. Can you tell me all about it!
Thanks!
*practices the tango, in a long red dress with slits up the side and very high heels*
*hums to self*
Dear Confused,
Robert Fulghum once said that everything anyone has ever said about love is true, just not all of it is true at the same time.
And I think this is true because there are infinate kinds of love out there.
Take any adjective and it's a type of love.
Friendly love, unfriendly love, book-love, movie-love, music video love, blue love, red love, yellow love, sweet love, sharp love, hippie love, snuggly love, sticky love, etc.
And sadly, there's no catalog to order your love from.
Some would say that wishing for one kind is great way to get another kind, but I just think the odds of getting one out of a billion kinds of love is just always pretty slim.
So it's really more a matter of examining the sort of love you've found, and deciding if it's what you wanna keep and nourish and build.
Does it light you up?
Does it make your world, your life make more sense?
Does it scare you a little, but not a lot?
Is it the love YOU want?
The answers to this questions aren't all you NEED to know, but they'll pretty much all you CAN know at the beginning.
Go read about it, write about it, but by all means EXPERIENCE it, as you find it. Love is an education at the very least, and so it is NEVER wasted.
Best of luck! (although love IS the best luck)
Adorably,
Miss VJ
*grabs a red feather boa from a hook on the closet door and throws it around her neck*
*hums louder*
Next question, please.
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