Happiness is ......

......... when you do the right thing and do it like a big girl and say what needs to be said and it's actually recieved well, when you were in serious doubt of it going that well. Lets be honest, the most vicious attacks usually come the first time you defend yourself.

......... and then going home and finding a postcard from your Gramie Dude, a picture of Grandpa Patrick dressed as a pirate with a parrot and eyepatch.

......... and chuckling over it while eating leftover very spicy chicken strips and a cold beer.